Making Deletes from Life and Facebook

Well, the past few weeks since Mercury(the planet of communication) has been in retrograde I have been fine tuning my overall life. I have been reviewing all things Madam Cj,  just plain Cj,and some of you know me as Curtisha, and she is being fine tuned also!LOL!!! Anyhoo, the things that used to entertain me just don’t anymore. I have had to make cuts from my life. I am saying ‘no’ more now and it feels damn good. If I don’t respect me as a Woman AND a Business Woman, then who will? And why is it when a woman is firm and definite in her answer’s she has to be labeled or called mean? Chile they haven’t EVEN experienced mean if that’s what they are thinking mean looks like! Well, I won’t go into details but a person that I considered a dear associate crossed the line and tried to go for my jugular via Facebook. And surprisingly his choice of words did not cut me like they would have 1-2 years ago. What really caught me off guard was when he would not let up with his words and the subject that was being discussed was one of great importance. My name being slandered. The guy did not show up like a friend or even a dear associate would. Long story short I had to go for his jugular,just a lil bit, because if I went all the way in he probably would have came to ATL lookin for me. BTW I would have had no problem with that!  I realized that in that moment I was no longer in need to be entertained by juvenile banter or tug of war and I kindly asked this person to delete me. That started a snowball effect. Ask yourself, if the 5 average people that you are around on a constant basis are people you want to be like.  I found this exercise in “The Success Principles” by Jack Canfield. I apply this to the many people that are in my life. If we cannot facilitate each other’s  needs(spiritual,emotional,business,etc.) in some way then what are we doing just taking up space? Until next time, TCYB(take care yo bizness) Madam Cj